Toni Braxton

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Relationship Advice...

I know I'm not the only one who's ever said it but: DON'T I repeat DON'T take relationship advice from ur friends (unless ur in dire need/ if u know they have ur best interest @ heart) Even though I'm single I get tired of seeing long lasting relationships take a turn for the worst just b/c ur "friend" thinks ur guy/doll is "smothering u" (or whatever outlandish reason they make for u to break up). Needless to say its true that when some ppl are single they're miserable & misery sure does love company...think ab it ur in a good relationship, ur both not perfect, u have areas u can definitely work on in order to take it to the next level & then u have a petty fight ab....lets say....the phone bill u tell ur single "miserable" friend (& u can tell they're miserable *relationship wise* b/c they ALWAYS have something negative to say) & they make it seem like ur spouse is controlling u & u need to break it off immediately b/c clearly that won't be "good 4 u in the long run"....NOW ur single & they get into a relationship a week later & they're doing everything they tried to preach to u ab not doing & they've found their soul mate & love of their life in less than a week...while u just dumped ur spouse of 4/5 yrs bc of a stupid phone bill u both had money to pay...MORAL: Don't listen to those "miserable" friends, unless of course like I said, they have ur best interest @ heart...NO GUY/DOLL is perfect & if ur fine with the type of relationship ur in then that's all that matters!!!!!
Posted by Elizabeth M.D at 10:47 PM

3 comments:

  1. L.C. GlamDoll aka Ms. LaurenChanelJanuary 28, 2011 at 12:06 AM

    Lololol... I almost wanna just leave a comment that reads: "NO COMMENT" and I know you'll know everything I mean by that!
    Oh let's not forget the "friends" that are in miserable relationships, and the ones that may have okay relationships but they just having those "hating tendencies" and wanna stir up drama smh...
    BUT I agree with you 100%... Sometimes its best to drown 'em out UNLESS you know they GENUINELY have your best interest at heart and/or you realize they're telling you things your heart already knows but for some reason you're afraid to listen too!

    OOOH and let's not forget the flipside, when you're the friend with GENUINELY GOOD INTENTIONS trying to give advice to a friend and they take it the wrong way. Smh and instead of you're good intentions being taken the right way, they end up back with the bf/gf anyway and end up taking the things that you said about their significant other and holding it against you. Then BAM! kinda changes your relationship with your friend instead.
    LOL okay enough ranting... I guess the moral is no advice giving and getting among CERTAIN types of "friends" ((not including the true true true friends lol))

    *lol I wrote a whole post under your post*

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  2. Elizabeth M.DJanuary 28, 2011 at 12:57 AM

    I LOVE it though!!! The ppl that give the "best" advice NEVER know how to take it either...tell U not to trust ur significant other but they trust any guy they meet within 5seconds...I don't take advice but I wish the "miserable" ppl that gave some would genuinely mean what they say & not have some type of "hater" motive...u don't have to be single & miserable u can be single & HAPPY LIKE ME!!!! =-D

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  3. L.C. GlamDoll aka Ms. LaurenChanelJanuary 28, 2011 at 11:16 AM

    Lol AGREEEEE! :-)

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