"SINGLE"

This term seems to cause a bit of confusion for a lot of ppl, so let me clarify for those that think a "single" guy/doll is "sad"...I've been in a "relationship" since I was 14 years old, on & off, consecutive years with a few "exes"...from 14 to ab 20 (6years) and every other "something" I was in was for more than a year. NEVER alone for more than a month. My first 2 years "SINGLE", a few months without "dating"/getting back with "exes", all I've known is being with a guy b/c I thought that's what us dolls are supposed to do...Find a guy & "settle" for a while till the flame dies & the next one sweeps us off our feet. Took me a while before I finally decided to be BY MYSELF. SO FOR ANYONE TO ASSUME SINGLE PPL SIT @ HOME & CRY ALL NITE B/C THEY DON'T HAVE SOMEONE TO BE WITH; UR WRONG!!!!!!!! Especially when most of ur past hurts & every tear u shed was caused by someone u thought u couldn't live without. IDK how much more I can stress that I ENJOY BEING SINGLE...I'm not saying I want this 4ever BUT I do just wanna enjoy this time to get to know myself better, get to know what I really want from a future significant other, get to know where my life will take me...so PLEASE for these few "single" years I choose to have don't label me something I'm NOT. I AM VERY happy with myself right now & I'm still working on being the WOMAN I would LOVE to be! For those of u that don't know there a lot of us guys/dolls that get approached EVERY 5 SECs (I get a phone #, a compliment, a date request, any type of advance from the opposite sex...every sec of every minute of every day) we're "SINGLE" by choice. I 4 one am not one of those ppl to cry single b/c I can't find a "good guy" I've dated the bad & good...MORAL: We know what we are capable of getting we just choose this route b/c it's less stressful...actually DON'T call me "single" anymore call me "SELFISH" b/c I'M NOT READY TO SHARE MYSELF WITH ANYONE....I'M LOVING ME MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE CAN RIGHT A/B NOW!!!!!!-XoXo