After a friend of mine posted a stat on FB "Lettin go when ur heart tells u other wise..............sucks!!" I thought to myself what makes some of us go & what makes others stay; we wanna believe that only "ride or die wifeys" stay down 4 life but is that even really true...what if staying just simply means ur enabling someone to continue to be lazy & dependent or better yet a cheater...it's weird bc if u stay u let the madness continue n then u only have yourself to blame but if u leave ur left alone tryna pick up the pieces of where u left off. & then it becomes am I better off alone or should I go back bc now I'm lonely. I've fought long n hard with this one tryna tell myself that going back can possibly make a rekindled flame bring us back to where we once were but then I get upset @ myself when we start playing the games again...."I HATE U, I LOVE U"...I gave almost EVERY "relationship" I was in a 2nd, 3rd, 4th & 5th chance thinking maybe next time it would work, maybe if I do things this way they'd like that better, maybe if I changed my hair, maybe if I started being nicer, maybe if I went back to being a b*tch again...I finally learned to let go when the bad outweighed the good. This is not only 4 my Dolls bc LOVE is a 2 way street & I know alotta guys get taken advantage of as well. We all have to remember that SOMETIMES our hearts can in fact steer us wrong but then we just need to go back to using our brain...
((THE HEART IS THE STRONGEST MUSCLE IN THE HUMAN BODY & THEREFORE CAUSES US THE MOST PAIN))
Thats funny cuz at work I had this same convo with someone and he actually told me that I use my heart...I can't imagine where he got that crap from because if I used my heart, I probably wouldnt be by myself...smh - SapphyreD
ReplyDeleteSometimes ppl that don't really know us besides through minuscule conversation swear they do& they go off ranting ab how often we use our hearts when in all actuality we've only experienced "heartache" once or twice in life...that person is prob just too quick to pass judgment.
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